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How I miraculously met Delphine

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 On January 2022 I first met Rebecca Nafula at Kibomet Kitale. We lived in the same compound at the place where I had rented a house. She gave me her Safaricom phone number.  She might not have used her number for sometime and was sold to another person, whom I later came to know her name as Delphine Adega. I last met Rebecca in 2024 in between Konoini and Sikhendu.  On 12th October 2025, I tried texting Rebecca on WhatsApp directed to the number she had given me, only to get a reply from a lady who later identified herself as Delphine. On 15th October 2025, I proposed to Delphine and she accepted my offer. Delightfully, I am glad that she becomes the woman whom I will spend the rest of my life with. Delphine is a beautiful, kind-hearted and loving lady. I admire her greatly and she has proven to be so open to me and I have made a lifetime promise - not to let her down.

Motivating inner Faculties for Lifetime Happiness

 It is prudent to trust your natural instinct, before making a decision that will have a long-term impact. Living a happy life deserves having a family with members that think alike. Make the right choice when choosing a marriage partner because that is the person whom you are going to spend the rest of your life with. As a person, you can't live in isolation and the basic unit of a society is a family. Single life is quite boring. Ignite your conscious mind. Hang out with friends who add value to your life.  In case you are looking for a lifetime partner whose interests align with yours, then visit places that interest you the most.  You might find your potential partner right there 'waiting' for you. It's better to understand someone well before you propose or accept any partnership offer.  Character matters most, then beauty follows. Never fall for beauty at first glance, because you might be disappointed along the way. Your interests should align and merge your l...

Tracing my Destiny: Back to my Roots

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Photo : Vincent Kerre  The icon of the family that is well known was called Webala. Webala belonged to the bameme clan, neala cluster, bukusu subtribe of the abaluhya tribe. The late Webala Murandafu was born around 1875 to the late Murandafu Mukhobe and Nayoma. He was married to 3 wives that is Silonyo , Maruti and Sitoko.  Webala had several sons and daughters. The sons of Webala included: Marauni, Norati, Daniel, Apota, Kerre , Edward, Elijah, Peter, John, Patrick, Fred and Bedford. His daughters included: Mukowa, Nasipwondi, Nayembe, Khainja and Manea. Webala had brothers namely Kunusia and Wefwafwa. Webala Wa Murandafu died in 1954, at the age of 79 years, while his wife Silonyo died in 1956 and were all buried in Sang'alo near Bungoma town. Vincent Kerre was among Webala's most vocal children. Kerre and his brother Apota were the most ruthless in the household of Webala. The late Vincent Kerre Webala was born in 1917. He was the son of Webala and Silonyo. Kerre relocate...

Love that Hurts, nursing Emotional heartbreak

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  Romantic love is touted as one of the major scam, owing to the unpredictability of human thinking. You might be deeply in love now, but the next minute you are sworn enemies.  Circumstances under which you attract your partner changes with time. This also applies to things such as shape and appearance. You might have fallen in love due to personal looks, but human appearance changes with age.  As you grow you might fail to meet the demands of your partner's sight.  Love life is replete of intrigues and intricacies which is beyond human control. You might be static in thinking, yet your heart is dynamic.  The common love saying that goes by 'follow your heart' is what dictates every relationship. For any relationship to thrive, you have to go against the current. Many relationships in contemporary world are failing to meet the test of time because human preferences are changing at faster rates. Material things have compounded the natural essence of love. Many p...

Love that defy the vagaries of past challenges

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  Life is a journey, not a destination. I wrote a descriptive article praising someone who wasn't mine by any description. Since my fallout with Phoebe Walukhu , I never thought I would ever find someone who could give me unconditional love the way she did. I was outrightly wrong. Joan Simiyu perfectly replaced Phoebe, and sealed the love injuries that I was inflicted with on the previous relationship. Joan and I became acquainted on January 08th 2023. It coincided with the second birthday of my beloved boy Liam Kerre . What started as a joke, later blossomed into frequent conversations and lovely exchanges. The scion of the Bameme clan, bukusu subtribe had finally found a lovely, lively ever smiling progeny of the Bayumbu clan, tachoni subtribe. Love makes more sense when it falls to the rightful pair. A lady who hails from the outskirts of Webuye, a village called Kakimayi, had won the heart of a man who resistingly was thinking much of his other love life, gone sour....

Why I named my Son Liam after my Grandfather Kerre

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While his mother had the privilege of choosing the name Liam, the surname was reserved for me and I had to name after my grandfather whose name was Vincent Kerre. Just as his father who was named after his paternal great grandfather Webala, Liam was named after his paternal great grandfather Kerre. The name Liam had been ratified by both of us, after his mother proposed the name and after going through popular baby names in the United States in 2021, Liam topped the list. I hadn’t planned to name him after my grandfather Kerre, but the instinct of doing so occurred at the time when the hospital birth registry demanded that we submit the child’s name. My wife Phoebe and I had not discussed about the surname Kerre, but she finally obliged my proposal. Back to the Roots My grandfather Vincent Kerre was born in 1917 to the Late Webala Murandafu of the bameme clan and a luo woman named Silonyo . Kerre died on 21/10/1993 at the age of 76 years in a grisly road accident near Kimilili town....

Liam@1: To My Son Liam Kerre

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Liam@1 Dear Little Liam, My Little Liam as we celebrate your first anniversary in this planet earth, we always have fond memories of you. Your charming smile erases all fears in the eyes of both your parents. I know you will get this message one day, when you will have come of age. My son we know that you will live to be a towering figure in the society. Receive our blessings in abundance as the greatest of all the birthday gifts. Dad would have loved to attend your first birthday event, but he won’t make it due to limited resources and the distance between us. It was fate that made it possible for you to celebrate your first birthday with your mum in Kakuma, Turkana County while your dad is stuck at Kitale, Trans Nzoia County. But dad took a memory of you, just two days before your birthday as he bid you bye to Kakuma.  Photo taken on 06/01/2022 Why I was unable to attend your first birthday, was due mum’s love for you and would not have leaved you under my custody as you were st...